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Combatting loneliness and isolation as we age

7 November 2024

Loneliness and isolation can be two of the most significant challenges faced by older adults. As people age, social circles may shrink due to retirement, mobility issues, or the loss of friends and loved ones. This can lead to a feeling of disconnection.  

The effects of isolation pose significant risks to older people and extend beyond emotional wellbeing. Isolation can impact both physical and mental health, increasing the risk of anxiety, depression, and even chronic conditions such as heart disease. 

There are many proactive steps that can be taken to combat loneliness, and it is important to recognise that aging doesn’t have to mean isolation. It is essential to find ways of fostering connection and community for older adults. 

Understanding Loneliness and Isolation 

Social isolation refers to having limited contact with other people, while loneliness is the feeling of being disconnected or wanting more meaningful connection. A person can be socially isolated without feeling lonely or feel lonely even when they are regularly around others. Understanding the difference matters because each may need a different type of support.

Over time, isolation can lead to a deep sense of loneliness and living in this state can have adverse effects on people’s mental wellbeing, greatly affecting their quality and enjoyment of life. 

 

The Health Impacts of Loneliness 

Research has shown that loneliness has far-reaching health consequences, especially in older adults. Studies link chronic loneliness to increased risks of cognitive decline, dementia, and higher mortality rates. 

On top of this, loneliness can even worsen pre-existing medical conditions. For people living with chronic illnesses, from heart disease to hypertension, and weakened immune systems, the added emotional toll of loneliness can hinder recovery and wellbeing. 

 

Services That Can Help 

  • Community Activities and Social Programs 

Participating in social programs and community activities is one of the best ways for people to stay connected and engaged. Local community centres and senior groups often host regular events designed to provide opportunities for people to connect with others and activities they enjoy. From book clubs to exercise classes and group outings, these events encourage social interaction and allow older adults to meet new people and build friendships. Staying socially active can provide a sense of belonging and reduce feelings of loneliness. 

In South Australia, a good starting point is your local council. Most run dedicated seniors’ programs, and many have a community development officer whose role is to connect residents with local options. Beyond council initiatives, organisations like Men’s Sheds, local choirs, walking groups, library programs, U3A, volunteer groups, and church communities welcome new members without any expectation of prior involvement. If leaving the house or attending alone feels like a barrier, several of these groups can arrange for someone to accompany you the first time. It is always worth asking.

 

  • Transportation and Mobility Support 

Limited mobility can often be a barrier to socialising. As people age, driving can become more difficult or overwhelming. While public transport services are usually available, they are not always convenient or easily accessible. Exploring alternative transportation options is important to help people stay connected with the community, as well as friends and family. 

Local councils often provide local buses and transport options specifically designed for older adults. Many Aged Care Service providers have team members who can drive clients to and from events, and even chaperone them if required. These services make it possible for individuals to attend social events, medical appointments and stay connected with the world. Finding ways to get out and about is key to maintaining social engagement. 

 

  • In-Home Support and Companionship 

People who have been isolated for a long time, or who face mobility issues often prefer to remain at home. Companionship can be a crucial factor in reducing loneliness for these individuals. Regular visits from family, friends, or neighbours can provide a sense of connection and support. Having a reliable network of people who check in and engage with older adults, even if just for a cup of tea and a chat, can make a significant difference in people’s day-to-day lives.  

 

  • Technology and Virtual Connections 

Learning to use technology can enable virtual interactions that help to combat feelings of loneliness. Video calls, messaging apps, social media platforms, and online communities offer new ways to stay connected. When physical distance or mobility is an issue, technology can allow people to maintain relationships with friends and family.  

While many older adults may be unfamiliar with or reluctant to embrace technology, guiding and encouraging them to learn new platforms will offer an easy way to stay in touch, especially when in-person interactions are limited. 

 

  • Intergenerational Programs 

Interacting with younger generations can provide older adults with a renewed sense of purpose and engagement. Many community groups offer intergenerational programs that bring together different age groups for shared activities. These programs not only combat physical isolation by expanding people’s social circles but also foster a sense of purpose. A simple conversation and the exchange of knowledge between younger and older individuals can create truly meaningful connections and benefit everyone involved. 

 

A comprehensive approach 

Aged Care and practical support services play a vital role in reducing isolation for older people. However, it’s also important to recognise the power of community and the impact that an individual can have.  

Families, friends, volunteers and local communities can all contribute to the wellbeing and health of older adults. Maintaining regular contact, offering help to attend events, and encouraging participation in social activities can all help to combat isolation, and make a significant difference in people’s lives.  

If you are worried about someone, the smallest, most useful step is a standing arrangement rather than a good intention. A phone call every Tuesday is worth more than an open offer to call any time, because it gives the week a shape.

If practical support would help, such as someone to drive them to a group, company for a few hours a week, or help around the house so that leaving it is less daunting, Kalyra’s Help at Home services cover the southern suburbs, the Adelaide Hills, and the Fleurieu. Kalyra also runs intergenerational programs that bring older and younger people together, and six retirement living villages where company is a walk away rather than a drive.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between loneliness and social isolation?

Social isolation refers to having limited physical contact with other people, while loneliness is the emotional feeling of being disconnected or wanting more meaningful connection. A person can be socially isolated without feeling lonely, or feel lonely even when they are regularly around others.

How common is loneliness among older Australians?

Loneliness and social isolation can affect people at any stage of life, including older Australians. The experience is different for everyone and can be influenced by changes in health, mobility, bereavement, living arrangements, personal confidence, or access to transport and community activities.

How can I support a parent who may be lonely?

Start with small, consistent contact. A regular phone call, a set weekly visit, a lift to an activity, or a shared routine is often more helpful than a general offer of support. It can also help to connect them with activities they already enjoy, such as gardening, music, walking, volunteering, faith groups, or local community programs.

Can loneliness affect health and wellbeing?

Yes. Ongoing loneliness and social isolation can significantly impact emotional wellbeing, confidence, and overall quality of life. They can also make it harder for someone to stay physically active, maintain daily routines, or seek help when they need it.

What support is available in South Australia?

Support is available through local councils, community groups, libraries, seniors’ programs, My Aged Care, and in-home support providers like Kalyra. Depending on a person’s needs, assistance can include transport, social support, companionship, domestic assistance, or guidance with accessing local activities.